On the day you married you never anticipated ending your relationship.

There are options to avoid a "battle" at the courthouse and spending lots of money.

You married each other planning on spending the rest of your lives together...a divorce is a death...the end of all of your plans, hopes and dreams...it is the death of your future plans.

You must now begin a new journey - alone.

You began your marriage with love and cooperation...why not end it the same way.

Always take the "high road" when ending a relationship -- especially if there are children involved.